Board Thread:WARNING ALL USERS False Info\Spoilers/@comment-50.67.152.227-20140201055654/@comment-11260666-20140203013710

This has two parts: the first is a Scott/Stiles dynamic rant and the second is my actual response to the question. They both kind of go hand in hand.

Part one:

I think head canon has really messed with people's minds, even mine for awhile. Stiles is looked at as the victim a lot because he's human and often Scott is looked at as the bad guy because he's a werewolf and has powers and a girlfriend and has kind of left Stiles behind.

But go back to the first episode of the show, when they were both losers, and listen to how unsupportive of a friend Stiles was to Scott. Scott wanted to go to bed early so he can make first line with lacrosse, while Stiles was busy coming up with reasons to why it was never going to happen, instead of supporting his best friend despite his asthma.

Now if this type of relationship, where Stiles doesn't think highly of himself and keeps Scott down own his lowly level instead of trying to better himself, has been going on for years, then why would Scott pick up Stiles' phone calls? From Stiles' point of view, Scott is a jerk who became awesome and left him behind. But from Scott's point of view, Stiles is negative and unsupportive and he doesn't want to be around that all the time. We've all had some negative friends that we love, but don't want to be around all the time because they don't like themselves and want you to be a nobody with them instead of them wanting to be a somebody with you.

To me, this is a big part of the Scott/Stiles relationship. No one knows when Scott and Stiles became best friends, but if Stiles' best childhood friend was Heather, when did he meet Scott? And was Scott there for him when Claudia died? Head canon says that Scott was there for Claudia's death, but we don't know that. I guess either way I could see Stiles latching onto Scott and never wanting him to leave him behind, becuase maybe Scott was the first one to be there for him after his mom died. But that also puts more pressure on Scott. If Stiles doesn't want to grow, will I (Scott) stick by him and stay small or will I make the best out of what I was given and hopefully be able to take Stiles with me?

Part 2:

Stiles has become majorly supportive of Scott, but it doesn't change the fact that Scott is "the hot girl" while Stiles is still just Stiles, who may have gotten to kiss Lydia once, but he still doesn't have her. Scott has gotten everything he's ever wanted and Stiles has gotten a mental illness.

Scott is popular now and people always seem to want to be around him while Stiles is in the background, so it would make sense that he doesn't like Isaac when he's becoming closer to Scott. Stiles felt replaced with Allison and the same could be possible with Isaac, as well as with anyone else who gets closer to Scott.

I love Stiles and he is so awesome, but he definitely has some growing up to do when it comes to relationships, which is expected for a teenager in high school.