Board Thread:False Info and Speculative Discussion/@comment-20061173-20150619211535/@comment-25176701-20150723181451

NervousShipper wrote: and yes. a person can love more than one person at a time. as long as he doesn't dick or kiss the other woman, it's not cheating.

It depends how you define "love". If you are talking about friend love, or the type of love you have for somebody that's like family to you (both apply to the Stydia relationship), then that's fine to love them like that while having romantic feelings for somebody else.

Yes, technically, a person can do whatever but that doesn't always mean they should. If somebody has romantic feelings for two people, that's fine, only IF they don't start a romantic relationship with either person. It's not right for somebody to have romantic feelings for two people while going out with one of them. To me, cheating doesn't necessarily mean kissing somebody. It can mean just looking at them in a romantic way or having romantic feelings for them while in a relationship with another person.

I wouldn't date somebody who had romantic feelings for me and another person, and I certainly wouldn't expect anyone to date me if I had romantic feelings for two people at once. It's just disrespectful and there's no excuse for it. It can only end one way: With all three of us getting our hearts broken. If somebody has romantic feelings for two people, then they should sort them out before beginning any kind of romantic relationship with either one of the two people or somebody else.